[quote="Fallen_Horse"]Huh? I mean, I guess I don't know what YOU are getting at.
What I was trying to say is that I am concerned porn tends to cause people to become more lustful in their daily life, possibly leading to adultery and viewing women in a more physical and less mental/emotional viewpoint. Random sex was mentioned by another member, and they were saying that they didn't see anything wrong with random sex, and I was providing a counterpoint to that. The posts weren't really related.
i was trying to understand your point of view better
which i didn't because nobody mentioned random sex, you did
by answering to veganlifer, who wasn't talking about random sex:
"I am also intrigued where you say that “I think that sex should only happen in a partnership where the couple has developed emotional and mental attachments to each other” Just wonder why you feel this way? Surely if you have two consenting adults who are happy to have sex without emotional attachment, why is this wrong?
he wasn't mentioning random sex! just because people consent having sex outside a stable relationship doesn't mean they are having random sex. but maybe it's just the word "random" which is confusing me as a non-english mother tongue speaker. random to me means "close your eyes and pick whatever". isn't it possible to choose a partner with criteria without being in a stable relationship? if this is possible, than that's not random to me.
maybe casual sex sounds better? apologies if it's just a language barrier