fredrikw wrote:BlueRose wrote:I said "tend", and I find it hilarious you're telling a woman how to think about her gender....
I'm just saying what I think about gender stereotyping, and you can't isolate one gender when you are putting them up against the other (in making a sweeping generalization about how women
and men are). I don't see what's hilarious about that.
"Tend" means generally, not all. I wouldn't say it was sweeping. Bear in mind I'm coming at it from my own perspective and comparing and contrasting with other bodybuilders both men and women. I have female friends who outbench the men in their gym.
And I was being sarcastic...
Anyway, probably nothing to get worked up about, I just think there are enough beliefs within sports that women can't perform or shouldn't do this and that, and men should be a certain way, and I always think these expectations and stereotypes are much more limiting to our choices that our individual bodies will ever be.
I am a raging feminist and the utter last person to say that women cannot perform as well as men. Hells bells, I am a software engineer in addition to being a fitness nut and can preach to you at all ends on gender discrimination
first hand. That was NOT what I said. What I said was that there were differences, period. And there are. Know what it's like to discover you need a better sports bra after your D cup breasts are sore from jiggling up and down repeatedly during an Insanity workout? No, you don't, cause you're a man. There ARE physical differences to work through but it doesn't mean one gender is better than the other.
Sheesh, folks. *shakes head*